Hosting tips
So you've agreed to be a host or be hosted - that's great, undoubtedly you will make new friends through this, so good for you! But maybe you've never hosted someone or been hosted, here are some tips that we think will help make your hosting experience the best it can be.
If you are a host
You'll want to get in contact with your guest/s early to find out about their travel arrangement, tell them how to get from the airport to your house that sort of thing. You also need to let them know if they need to bring anything - towels, sleeping bags, small offerings to the lindy gods, local delicacies such as chocolate are good.
As a host you aren't expected to host your guests longer than the exchange weekend but you may choose to do so. It is always a good idea to discuss arrangements before the exchange to avoid awkward conversations.
Hosts can't always give their guests lifts to events as most people in London don't have a car. If you are unable to travel to the venues with your guests, you should point your guests in the right direction for the nearest tube, bus or train station (see http://www.tfl.gov.uk). Perhaps giving them a tube map and/or lending them an A-Z would be nice too.
Lastly you are not responsible for feeding your guests but giving them the Indian takeaway menu for down the road is an acceptable idea. Providing internet access is optional as are foot massages, back rubs etc.
If you are a great host your guests might return the favour and have you to stay at their place sometime during their camp or exchange.
You may also want to read the 'if you are a guest' section
If you are a guest
It is a good idea to get in contact with your host and let them know your travel details. Also ask about what to bring, such as bedding, towels etc.
In London it is likely that you won't get a lift to the venue (most people don't drive) but ask about public transport options.
You will be responsible for feeding yourself and we ask that you only use your host's phone and internet access if it is offered.
Remember that you are a guest in your host's house so you are expected to tidy up after yourself. Offering to make cups of tea (especially to the British) is also seen as good guest behaviour. It is also a nice idea to bring something for your host - like a thank you card (with your email address), a mix CD of your favourite songs or a CD of a home-town local band. If your host does drive you around a lot you might offer to pay for some petrol or parking costs.
If you are a lovely guest your host will be more likely to have you stay next time and you might want to return the favour and host them at your place.
You may also want to read the 'if you are a host' section.
Ideas for something to bring
If you are being hosted, it's always nice to bring something for your host. Here are some ideas:
- Thank you card
- Mix CD
- Local Speciality (e.g. food) from your region
- Chocolates
